BDE
Coaching Programs
🔥 Reignite Your Flame🔥
✨Bed Death Eraser Program✨
(Couples Program)
Are you and your partner sharing a life, but missing the spark? Do you feel like you're incredible roommates, but the electrifying connection that once defined your relationship has faded into a familiar, frustrating distance?
If you’re a queer couple tired of:
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Feeling like you’re on different planets when it comes to desire and intimacy?
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The tension and guilt that creeps in when you turn away from a partner's advances?
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Wishing for deeper communication about sex, but feeling stuck or unsure how to start the conversation without causing a fight?
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Watching your passionate history turn into a confusing, unfulfilled present?
You’re not just experiencing a lull—you're experiencing Bed Death, and it’s an all-too-common pain point, especially within relationships that face unique queer challenges.
The Bed Death Eraser Program is Your 12-Week Journey to Authentic Intimacy
I'm Whitni, and for over five years, I’ve guided countless couples past this exact roadblock. I understand that for queer couples, intimacy is often intertwined with complex dynamics, societal pressures, and the need for a truly safe and celebrated space within your bond.
This isn't just about having more sex; it's about shifting the focus from the quantity of intimacy to the profound quality of your connection.
In this 12-week transformational journey, we will work together to:
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Erase the Pressure: Learn to embrace each other's moods and needs without the burden of expectation, turning rejection into re-direction and curiosity.
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Cultivate Intentional Joy: Discover how to create meaningful rituals and interactions that nurture your individual selves so you can show up fully to enhance your connection as a couple.
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Unlock Vulnerable Communication: Gain the specific tools to approach even the most difficult conversations with confidence, kindness, and deep understanding, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth.
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Build a Secure, Sensual Bond: We'll move beyond surface-level fixes to explore the trauma-informed, mind-body connection techniques necessary to foster an atmosphere where both partners can express their unique needs and desires freely.
Couples with truly fulfilling sex lives know that the best intimacy emerges from a foundation of trust, respect, and open, authentic communication. I will guide you along the Bed Death Eraser Program to unlock this foundation and reignite the electrifying connection you both deserve.
Are you ready to stop settling for room-mates and start thriving as passionate partners?
If the thought of moving from frustration to a relationship filled with vibrant connection, joy, and fulfilling intimacy inspires you, take the next step.
Apply now for a private consultation with me, Whitni, where we will discuss your unique pain points, your vision for your relationship, and how the Bed Death Eraser Program can make that vision a reality.
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🪷 Reconnect to Yourself 🪷
✨Queer Intimacy Path Program✨
(Individuals Program)
If you feel the frustration of:
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Dating Fatigue: Constantly looking for "the one" to fill a void you suspect you need to fill yourself.
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The Guarded Heart: Feeling unable to be truly vulnerable, worried that showing your authentic self will lead to rejection or pain.
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Uncertain Desires: Being unsure what you truly want—in bed, in life, and in partnership—because you've spent too long prioritizing others' needs.
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Healing Stalled: Knowing you need to process past trauma, relationship scars, or queer-specific burdens, but feeling overwhelmed and stuck in the process.
You are not broken, you are simply lacking the internal map to true self-intimacy. Until you forge a powerful, loving relationship with yourself, every external relationship (romantic or otherwise) will only amplify your existing disconnect.
The Queer Intimacy Path: Your Self-Paced Journey to Wholeness
I’m Whitni, and I’ve guided hundreds of people through the process of radical self-connection. My work, informed by trauma integration and specialized intimacy coaching, acknowledges the unique complexities that queer individuals face when cultivating self-worth and vulnerability.
This self-paced, 12-week program is crafted for you—the individual who knows that the best relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself.
The transformation within The Queer Intimacy Path will allow you to:
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Forge an Inner Sanctuary: Learn to meet yourself exactly where you are—radiant, tender, or uncertain—and transform self-criticism into radical self-honoring and curiosity.
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Heal the Scars: Gain practical, powerful tools to navigate challenging emotions and internal conversations with grace, turning past obstacles and trauma into opportunities for profound healing and growth.
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Define Your Desires: Move beyond internalized shame and external expectations to cultivate an atmosphere where your needs and desires—sexual, emotional, and personal—are clearly heard, respected, and celebrated by you.
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Become Magnetic: By cultivating this strong, healthy, and authentic inner bond, you naturally prepare yourself to enter any future relationship (romantic or otherwise) as your most complete, healthy self, attracting connections that are truly reflective of your worth.
The ultimate goal of this path is preparation. We prepare you for a future where you never have to abandon yourself for connection. This profound internal work is the essential prerequisite to achieving the secure, passionate relationship you crave.
Are you ready to stop waiting for external validation and start claiming your authentic, powerful self?
If you are a queer individual committed to doing the deep, life-changing work that leads to authentic love—starting with your self—take the next step.
Apply now for a private consultation with me, Whitni. We will discuss your healing goals and determine if The Queer Intimacy Path is the precise map you need to achieve inner wholeness.